The Complete Story
For most of his life, Suresh was there for his younger brother, Seelan. Now, after losing the person he spent decades caring for, Suresh needs a little help of his own.
Suresh’s story
- A childhood shaped by caregiving: When Suresh was around seven years old, his younger brother, Gunaseelan, affectionately known as Seelan, was diagnosed with cerebral palsy. From a young age, Suresh helped care for his brother, taking on responsibilities that most children his age would never have to think about.
- Becoming his brother’s main caregiver: After their mother passed away in 2009, Suresh became Seelan’s primary caregiver. He dedicated much of his life to looking after his brother while juggling work to provide for their needs.
- A bond beyond caregiving: Seelan was more than someone Suresh cared for. He was his best friend and companion. The brothers travelled together, shared countless memories and found joy in the little things. Suresh also shared their lives through his online platform, helping others understand the realities of caregiving and life with a family member with disabilities.
On 29 August 2026, Seelan passed away at the age of 42. After spending decades caring for his brother, Suresh is now navigating life without someone who had been at the centre of his world.
In December 2025, Suresh sustained injuries to both knees. While continuing to care for Seelan, he put off addressing his own wellbeing. His injuries eventually required ACL reconstruction surgery on both legs, leaving him facing months of recovery.
Why We’re Raising Funds
After years of putting his brother’s needs first, Suresh is now facing the challenge of recovering from surgery while adjusting to life after his loss.
Having undergone ACL reconstruction surgery on both legs, Suresh needs time to regain his mobility and strength. During this four-month recovery period, his ability to work and earn an income may be limited, making it difficult to keep up with his essential expenses and outstanding bills.
We’re hoping to raise S$30,000 to support Suresh through this recovery period. The funds will go towards his essential living expenses, including housing payments, utilities, food and transport, as well as outstanding medical and household bills and other necessary costs.
These funds will help ease the financial pressure on Suresh while he focuses on healing and getting back on his feet. After spending so many years caring for his brother, he deserves the time and support to look after his own wellbeing.
Every contribution, no matter the amount, can make a difference. If you’re unable to donate, sharing this campaign with your friends and family would also mean a great deal.
For a lifetime, Suresh was there for his brother. Now, let’s be there for Suresh.
Thank you for helping Suresh through this difficult chapter and reminding him that he doesn’t have to face it alone.
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FAQ
Suresh Vanaz Purushothaman is a Singaporean caregiver, entertainer and content creator known for sharing his life caring for his younger brother, Gunaseelan (Seelan), who had cerebral palsy. After their mother passed away in 2009, Suresh became his brother’s primary caregiver, dedicating much of his life to looking after him.
Suresh’s younger brother, Gunaseelan, affectionately known as Seelan, passed away on 29 August 2026 at the age of 42. Seelan had cerebral palsy, and Suresh had been his primary caregiver for many years. His passing has left Suresh grieving the loss of his brother and lifelong companion.
We’re raising S$32,000 to support Suresh with essential living expenses over the next six months, including food, transport, utilities and other day-to-day necessities. The funds will also help cover outstanding medical expenses related to his ACL reconstruction surgeries on both legs and other essential costs during his recovery.
The fundraising target is S$32,000 to help Suresh manage his essential living expenses, outstanding surgery-related medical costs and other necessary expenses while recovering and working towards greater financial stability.
Donations will go towards Suresh’s essential living expenses over the next six months, including food, utilities, transport and other day-to-day necessities. They will also help with outstanding medical expenses relating to his ACL reconstruction surgeries and other essential costs incurred during recovery.
Suresh is recovering from ACL reconstruction surgery on both legs. He sustained his injuries in December 2025 but put off addressing his own wellbeing while caring for his younger brother, Seelan, who had cerebral palsy. With several months of recovery ahead, his mobility and ability to work may be limited, making financial support important as he gets back on his feet.
ACL reconstruction is a surgical procedure to repair a torn anterior cruciate ligament (ACL), one of the key ligaments that stabilise the knee. Recovery typically involves rehabilitation and physiotherapy, and returning to normal activities can take several months. Recovering from surgery on both legs can present additional challenges with everyday mobility.
You can still make a difference by sharing Suresh’s fundraising campaign with your friends, family and social networks. Raising awareness helps the campaign reach more people who may be able to contribute or offer support.
You can contribute through Suresh’s fundraising campaign on The Give Collective. Every donation, regardless of size, helps ease the financial burden he is facing during this difficult period.
Caregivers often dedicate years of their lives to supporting loved ones, sometimes putting their own health, finances and personal needs aside. When circumstances change, caregivers may need support themselves. Suresh’s story highlights the importance of recognising caregivers’ sacrifices and building a community that supports them when they need help.
You can read more about Suresh’s relationship with his brother and his experiences as a caregiver through media coverage by CNA and RICE Media. These stories offer further insight into their bond and the realities of caregiving.
